DesireWhat to do with the intensity of longing that occasionally arises? Sometimes I hug my pup so hard he growls. When my pup growls, I realise I need to find some other way of letting off steam. Its easy to imagine I could just touch myself and be done with it, but no matter how many times I make myself come, that feeling of wanting doesnt subside. A friend has a term for the need for touchskin hungry. Lots of people live without sex, but I find it a kind