Love Hard On Purpose: Toss the Blueprints. Build Something Honest. (On Purpose)An essential guide to recognizing negative relationship patterns, embracing healthy love and attachments, and how to co create a corrective new love experience, from bestselling author and therapist John Kim What are the markers of a healthy relationship? How do you know if you are in love? When are you ready to choose the love that both holds you close and sets you free? We all crave answers to these and many more questions about our intimate bonds