The Joy of Saying NoAre you still playing a role you learned in childhood to please others, such as the Good Girl Boy, the Overachiever, or the Helper? Though these kinds of roles may have gained us attention and affection, they prohibited us from becoming our true selves. People pleasingputting others ahead of ourselves to avoid something negative or to get something we want or needruns rampant in our society. Saying yes when we should say no leaves us stuck in