How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not ToEveryone is struggling to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award winning book, updated for a new generation, provides a radical way for hurt parties to heal themselveswithout forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness. Until now, weve been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical