Lose Your MindWhat if everything you've been taught about self confidence is a lie? They tell you to control your thoughts. Conquer your fears. Train your mindset. They're wrong. The truth? Listening to your mind is what keeps you stuck. Josh Pais was raised in a world most of us can't imagine. His father was a physicist who worked with Einstein. His mother was a poet and painter. He grew up immersed in the clash between logic and creativity, precision and chaos.