You Can't Say That to MeYou Can't Say That to Me "Can't you do anything right?" "I can't believe you would feed that junk to your child!" "What is this? And don't tell me it's a casserole, I already know that." "If you really cared about me, you wouldn't behave this way." Sound familiar? Each of us occasionally feels the sting of very unpleasant language from those who are closest to usspouses, employers, friends, relatives. But frequent and repeated use of unanswerable