This Is Not About YouA memoir of first love, first lust, first heartbreak and the many disappointments in between. Rosemary Mac Cabe was always a serial monogamist, never happier than when she was in a relationship or, at the very least, on the way to being in one. But in her desperate search for 'the one'from first love to first lust, through a series of disappointments and the searing sting of heartbreakshe learned that finding love might mean losing herself along the