It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. (On Purpose)Two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers many individuals face on the road to a happy, loving, rewarding partnership. Many of the clients who end up in our respective therapist offices thought they were doing relationships rightavoiding the white picket fence, focusing on careers and experiences over babies and legally binding documents, choosing someone after they found themselves first.