How To Argue So Your Spouse Will Listen: 6 Principles for Turning Arguments into ConversationsHow To Argue So Your Spouse Will Listen If you are a couple, you've most likely had an argument. Big or small, it can ruin your day and, even worse, your relationship. Dr. Sharon Morris May says, "It's not how similar you are or even your level of conflict that determines your marital success but how you deal with your emotions, vulnerabilities, and dragons when you argue." Dr. Sharon views conflict through the lens of the attachment theory, helping