Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner)This companion book to Ian Kerners smash success She Comes First offers women his sometimes radical, always expert advice on everything from the nature of male desire to bedroom techniques that work. Transform Yourself from "Passion Victim" to Passionista! In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual "ill cliteracy," and women everywhere benefited from his "viva la vulva" philosophy of female pleasure.