How We MetYou cant choose who you fall in love with, they say. If only it were that simple. Growing up in Walsall in the 1990s, Huma straddled two worlds school and teenage crushes in one; the expectations and unwritten rules of her familys South Asian social circle in the other. Reconciling the two was sometimes a tightrope act, but she managed it. Until it came to marriage. Realising that marriage arranged or otherwise cannot be the all consuming purpose of