StandstillIt's no fun losing an identity if you've dedicated your life to it, whether it's love, work or the place you call home. What happens if you bail on all three in quick succession? Sashi Perera found out the hard way. 'Brilliant, vulnerable and hilarious. Sashi Perera has given us a comedy, a tragedy, a memoir, a polemic and an instruction manual on self forgiveness. I laughed and cried, often at the same time.' SHANKARI CHANDRAN 'This book is chaos.