Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and FamiliesMarriage and monogamy are not what they used to be, and today many couples are opting to start families before getting married, or deciding not to get married at all. At the same time, gay couples in states that recognize same sex marriage are getting married in droves. Some people prefer non monogamy and have relationships that include swinging and polyamory. The landscape of American marriage and relationships is changing, and a variety of family